I am finally able to stop crying and focus on the possibility that not all is lost. I have to assume some men are more focused on just the release and really don’t care so much about the gender. Take a deep breath and tell him what you want sexually,put a dildo in his ass,anything this is normal. To think that it’s just an emotional need sounds as though it’s a free pass to behave however one wants. And the thing is, as much as i want to be, i can’t even be mad at the people asking this question because i understand the line of thought.
You will never be happy with a gay man. My husbands have certainly never slept with me, but that’s because they’re so secure in their manhood.