Now go forth and masturbate a lot! you’re ready. It’s still not a topic that all females openly discuss. As mentioned above, the clitoris is more than just the outer, bean-shaped part. It’s harder to reach in that position, but some really love it, so why not try? Bondage and fetish expert, also recommends going in circular motions around the clitoris, rather than back-and-forth straight strokes. This is a particularly good move if you find direct contact with your clitoris is too much for you and also makes it easier to maintain rhythm when you need it most.